Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Flogging


These are our friends, Jamie & Meghan Gilroy.
Jamie's email response to our last blog ("Winter Tastes Good") ...

(This from Jamie:)
Ok let me see if I got this right cause it’s important. You NoCal folks clearly like to eat. Then eat some more. Then go to a country fair all about eating. Then eat some of what you bought at the fair. Then go to a movie about eating. Then squeeze in some WooWoo ceremony between feeds. Then of course go find a good place to eat (burning mucho calories doing WooWoo Cali Style no doubt). Whoa now!!! I hear the Northern Toltec Clan are representing Large! I am simply subsisting off of your food blogs BTW. Love you and your hefty clan brothers and sisters (BTW part 2: I hear Alan Hardman weighs in at 350lbs these days!) So Merry Merry and Happy Happy and keep your food blogs (heretofore now known as FLOGS!) coming! xoxoxo, J

Well, he got it right, didn't he!?

Jamie is a wonderful blog writer himself and is a meticulous House Wright in Marblehead Massachusettes, check out his blog at:
http://jamiegilroy.blogspot.com/
Check out his House Wright business at:
http://www.jamesgilroyhousewright.com/about-us/

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Happy Holidays!!!


Wishing You All a Bright & Bountiful New Year!
Love Always,
Ted & Peggy

Winter Tastes Good!

Bon appétit mes amis!
We recently watched "Julie and Julia" for the second time and just could not resist Bouef Bourguignon. The next day we went to a local country butcher, got good lean stewing beef and a chunk of bacon complete with rind, and got ready. The next day I lept out of bed (really ... lept ...), put on my pearls Julia-style, and started cookin', still in my ’jamas an' all.


Bouef Bourguignon is not hard to make, but it is veerrrry time-consuming — about 5 hours between preparation and cooking, and worth every second. The finished dish is deep rich brown, with meat so tender it falls off your fork, melts in your mouth and makes your eyes roll back into your head. Sliced sweet carrots, small brown-braised onions, mushrooms sautéd in butter, nearly a whole bottle of red wine, herbs, and bacon all blend together via slow-cooking to create the most peak culinary experience ever.

Okay. Okay!
As if that bit o' beefy heaven wasn't enough ...
Get ready, because crab season is also upon us.
The markets are full of these crawly guys at really incredible prices.
We've seen them as low as $2.50-$2.99 a pound, and at those prices, well, who can resist? Jo and Ray couldn't (our sister and brother-in-law), and invited us to come over for a down-and-dirty crab fest. And down-and-dirty we got, up to our elbows in red sauce and sweet crabmeat. (Can you hear us sucking and slurping?)


Jeeeeeeeez! We cannot believe the bounty of Winter!


And what better way to celebrate the official onset of Winter than through beautiful ceremony with our friend Frank. We've blogged about Frank before, but for anyone who may not be familiar, Frank is our resident shaman extraordinaire. Every single equinox and solstice, come rain, shine, sleet, sn ... (well maybe not snow, but only because it doesn't snow much at the beach) Frank is out at a sacred spot at the Western most point of the Bodega Headlands, to bring in the change of seasons with beautiful communion and ceremony ... even if it's 3 am.

Well lucky for us, the Winter Solstice fell at a decent hour this year, 9:47 am last Monday morning. Oh yeh, it did rain a bit, and it was cold and grey, and the sea was churning, and the gulls and pelicans were calling and flying in circles above our heads, and honestly it was so enlivening, who cares about the cold? There was beautiful drumming, conch calling, and Frank’s lovely way of creating sacred space and an experience that connected us to something greater than ourselves. Mama Pacha was smiling for sure that morning!



After the ceremony, we headed back, but not without a stop at Wild Flour Bakery in Freestone. Had to get some special bread for Christmas dinner this week. To the Wild Flour folks, bread-making is a true art form, check 'em out at: http://www.wildflourbread.com/


Okay, next stop ... Christmas dinner. It's at our house this year ... stay tuned for the next adventure. Till then (say in high-pitched melodic voice) Bon appetit!

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Into The Great Mystery


This was my mom, Laverne Abby Livingston in about 1943-4.
Pretty, don't you think?

Mom passed into The Great Mystery last month and my first impression when I heard the news was an image of her at about this age, laughing and enjoying herself with her own mother who passed on several years earlier. I was relieved for Mom because, as pretty as she was on the outside, she was very troubled on the inside for most of her life. My brother said that he and my dad arrived at the hospice just minutes after she died. He said he'd never seen her looking so peaceful.

Here it is a month later, and most of the time right now I don't really "get" that Mom's gone. I think of her still up in Oregon, sitting at the kitchen table smoking cigarettes. Then I look at photos of her and remember and sigh. She made it through. There were many times when we didn't think she would. But she did. She made it through a whole lifetime, and now she's graduated into somewhere, something else. And my belief is ... wherever she is ... she's finally home.



Above: Mom married my dad, Les Silver, in 1945. She had three kids between 1947-1952.


Above: About 1965
Top row: My brother Larry, Grandpa Livingston, my dad Les.
Bottom row: My sister Joanne, my grandma Nana More, my mom Laverne, and me.

Above: About 1992 I think.
Standing row: Samantha with baby Talo (he's nearly 18 now!), Ray, Joanne, Bonni, Leslie, Tifa, me, Puna, and Mom (by then, she had changed her name from Laverne to Abby Blair.)
Seated row: Larry, Ted, Dad.


Mom's ashes are at my Dad's house in Oregon. She's up on the fireplace mantle with the ashes of her father Adolph and her dog Pepper. I like that she's home, remaining a part of the family instead of buried in the ground or in the wall of a mausoleum somewhere. I think my Dad likes having her home too. He's got a photo of the two of them, all dressed up, taped to the front of her box, and is comforted to know that when he goes (he's 88 and says he's going to live another 5 years and I believe him), we'll be combining their ashes according to their wishes, and sprinkling them around the lakes by their house. I'm hoping Dad will get some good fishing time in before then.

So Mom lives on in his heart and in the hearts and memories of those who loved her. And she's finally, thankfully at peace.
Vaya con Dios Mamacita ...